Social marketers often dance an awkward cha-cha among the competing beats of conversation and commerce. Since we’re comparing digital life to a dance party — and why not? — by now it’s clear that most marketers know:
But . . . they struggle knowing when and if it’s okay to pull out the product samples. This week, we focus on the art and science of social selling. One insight that emerged from our most recent Gartner Social Marketing Survey (subscription required) is that most digital marketers are only beginning to explore this rich tundra.
Highlighted research this week provides advice on choreographing your social selling moves:
Social selling is not new. To get back to our party, marketers who succeed here are those who are able to do in the digital realm what a previous generation of word-of-mouth marketers did in the room. Consider an insurance salesman in the suburbs in the 1950s: he was a local, a friend or the friend of a friend, and he needed deals to pay the rent. How did he do it?
First, he belonged. There is a concept in social science called “belonging before belief.” It was developed by researchers like Rodney Stark, who studied how coherent social groups get formed. Stark’s research was specifically around cult formation, and he discovered something that surprised the discipline.
In Stark’s original study, one assumption was that people join a movement because they are attracted to its tenets or ideology, and that once they join, they become part of a new social sphere. As it turned out, the opposite was true: people joined the groups Stark studied because friends or relatives were in the group, and over time they came to feel comfortable with the doctrines. Belonging came before belief.
The word social scientists use for this process is the same one marketers use: conversion. Of course, I’m not implying that brands are cults (although some may resemble them), nor that Stark’s findings can be xeroxed by brand community managers. But I do think social marketers can learn a lot from social scientists, who are simply studying how humans act in groups.
The implications of this insight for social selling are:
Ultimately, our research reminds the marketer that social selling is social first, selling second. There is a right way and a wrong way to approach it in a social context. Just like a well-choreographed dance, it requires the partners to be moving in rhythm before the big closing number.